Dolapo Agbede tells about how a near-death experience gave her the clarity she needed. You don’t need to have such before you focus on the things that matter.
Once you have something like a near-death experience, honestly, it is like life applies a sieve.
You now focus on something that is important.
If you knew the day you will stop being here, everything you think were priorities will stop being priorities.
You now find out that your personal journey is very important.